The cicadas mechanical hum fills every ounce of the heavy air around me. The sun drifts higher and higher in the sky and the occasional sun shower brings just enough moisture to the ground to make it difficult to breathe in the damp, dusty air. Big drops of sweat form as I sit and eat a bowl of noodles trickle down my nose and catch them just before they land in my dinner. We walk from house to bus, bus to shop, to bus to house, and out again. The methodical days move by in a sluggish daze and I know, this is summer.
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My timelines on Facebook and WeChat fill with pictures, posts, and stories of summer. The lazy days on the island, the cool summer drinks, the advertisements for National Flip Flop Day, half-price milkshakes at Sonic and 3 dollar gelatos at Rita's. I see the signature sweet tea cup from McDonald's and can almost smell the hot wings in the oven, macaroni and cheese on the stove and warm chocolate chip cookies cooling on the counter. The occasional sun showers in Xiamen remind me so much of daily showers we would get in Lehigh. The mechanical hum of cicadas brings me immediately to my room on the south side of our house, and the humidity hangs just low enough to remind me of sultry games of basketball on the street outside my house.
I want my Mother's Pasta Fagioli (Regardless of how hot it is outside) in a big bowl on the couch in front of Wheel of Fortune. I want to drive to Sun Harvest for a Key Lime/Chocolate Twist ice cream and drink some of the best lemonade you've ever had. I want to go to the fish market with my Dad to get a fresh grouper sandwich with seasoned thick fries in a paper bag and a massive Styrofoam cup of sweet tea. I want to go by the deserted soccer fields and play a game of pick up with whoever happens to be there that night.
I find myself desperately missing summer in America.
………..
I torment myself with the memories of what was and almost forget to embrace the what is.
I used to hate the heavy air of Southwest Florida, the mosquitos, the heat, the monotony of life. Filling time with going on an evening outing to Kohls or Bed-Bath-And BEYOND got tiresome to me. When the biggest thing that happened was when you noticed your neighbors actually cleaned out their back yard…but now that all of that is so far away, I want nothing more than to embrace it all again. Like an old, familiar friend, embrace it and spend as much time as I can there.
So I have to ask myself. What is it about this life I now lead that I will miss whenever I leave it? This is the art of remembering to embrace wherever you are in life. Always remembering that your situation will never be forever, no matter how long it seems, and one day, you will miss the hair sticking to your forehead, not because you're sweating yet, but because of the sheer heavy moisture in the air… One day, you will miss trips to Bingo to get the Mangua Yizu zhi Bing Xia (fresh mango smoothie with coconut milk). Just as much as you miss the Pinapple, Mango, Coconut Gelato with vanilla yogurt from Rita's or the Cherry Limade from Sonic. One day you will miss the 45 minute drive home through the country and yet you will miss the 45 minute bus ride it takes to go 12 city blocks.
The point is, we never know how to appreciate what we've been given until we realize it's gone. After the celebration of what we call "freedom", we find ourselves melancholy for what was. So break the cycle! Embrace today. It's all you get today!
Embrace today and eat something you won't regret not eating, tomorrow. :)
Saturday, June 21, 2014
Wednesday, June 18, 2014
Update
Wellll, Summer's here!! And so the sultry Xiamen days continue. The entrance of summer brought a move to a new part of town and many new, un-had adventures.
School finished suddenly with my head English teacher me telling me last Friday, that it was to be my last day teaching for the semester. I was quite surprised, but as finals were rapidly approaching, I knew my days were numbered- I just didn't know how numbered. :P
I was incredibly sad to leave my 800 students without so much as a goodbye, but I will be able to go back and speak to each class after finals and give them my "Jai you" speech as well as get some final class pictures. (stay tuned for those! :)
I will be teaching a summer camp for a week in July for all of the teacher's kids who want to attend an English camp. I will be the only teacher for the week, but contrary to the 50 students per class I had all year, I will only have 15 students all week! I'm excited for the smaller numbers and anticipate watching Daddy do something cool with these kids. :)
Unfortunately, I will not be going to the USA this summer as finances and scheduling did not allow it, but lately my heart has been yearning to go for a long walk in a field, a long ride in an orange grove and a good meal at Rib City. While I will not get any of these experiences here this summer, I know that He has something much more exciting planned here.
Like I mentioned earlier, my roommate and I recently moved away from our home for 2 years to the other side of the island. The rent was sky rocketing as many foreigners and tourists were flocking to that area and it was no longer a practical place for us. The area we moved to is much more quiet and friendly. We are already making new contacts and friends and really sense a peace and assurance with the decision to move. We readily see His blessing in this move and are excited to continue watching Him work in new ways! I am also excited to continue exploring the new area. We are only a block away from the beach and got our first typhoon to welcome my first days of summer. Only a Florida girl could really enjoy something like that! :P
With the new move came many expenses. In China it is customary to pay rent by the year or in 3 month increments. This plus a one month extra deposit has brought it's financial difficulties. Please pray with me that Daddy will continue to provide as he always has. I confess my faith has been greatly tested recently with regards to finances, but something keeps me holding strong that my God will never forsake me and always provides for what He orders.
Also please remember us as we are meeting many new people, that Daddy's light and love would not return void- as he so wondrously promised! Already, I sense that he has a grand plan for us in this new place and I am so excited to be a part of it!
I have re-signed for another year at my middle school for next year and have been informed that I will not be able to move up with my class of 800, but will have another 800 new students next year in 7th grade. I am sad, not to be with my co-teachers from this year or my beloved students, but am honored that I have been given the opportunity to teach 800 new students.
Looking forward to the summer months and a less hectic work schedule as well as some sun time and juicy summer fruit. I'm starting the P-90X Extreme Yoga program soon in my living room, so that should give me something to do this summer! :P
Grace and Peace be with you always!
=)
School finished suddenly with my head English teacher me telling me last Friday, that it was to be my last day teaching for the semester. I was quite surprised, but as finals were rapidly approaching, I knew my days were numbered- I just didn't know how numbered. :P
I was incredibly sad to leave my 800 students without so much as a goodbye, but I will be able to go back and speak to each class after finals and give them my "Jai you" speech as well as get some final class pictures. (stay tuned for those! :)
I will be teaching a summer camp for a week in July for all of the teacher's kids who want to attend an English camp. I will be the only teacher for the week, but contrary to the 50 students per class I had all year, I will only have 15 students all week! I'm excited for the smaller numbers and anticipate watching Daddy do something cool with these kids. :)
Unfortunately, I will not be going to the USA this summer as finances and scheduling did not allow it, but lately my heart has been yearning to go for a long walk in a field, a long ride in an orange grove and a good meal at Rib City. While I will not get any of these experiences here this summer, I know that He has something much more exciting planned here.
Like I mentioned earlier, my roommate and I recently moved away from our home for 2 years to the other side of the island. The rent was sky rocketing as many foreigners and tourists were flocking to that area and it was no longer a practical place for us. The area we moved to is much more quiet and friendly. We are already making new contacts and friends and really sense a peace and assurance with the decision to move. We readily see His blessing in this move and are excited to continue watching Him work in new ways! I am also excited to continue exploring the new area. We are only a block away from the beach and got our first typhoon to welcome my first days of summer. Only a Florida girl could really enjoy something like that! :P
With the new move came many expenses. In China it is customary to pay rent by the year or in 3 month increments. This plus a one month extra deposit has brought it's financial difficulties. Please pray with me that Daddy will continue to provide as he always has. I confess my faith has been greatly tested recently with regards to finances, but something keeps me holding strong that my God will never forsake me and always provides for what He orders.
Also please remember us as we are meeting many new people, that Daddy's light and love would not return void- as he so wondrously promised! Already, I sense that he has a grand plan for us in this new place and I am so excited to be a part of it!
I have re-signed for another year at my middle school for next year and have been informed that I will not be able to move up with my class of 800, but will have another 800 new students next year in 7th grade. I am sad, not to be with my co-teachers from this year or my beloved students, but am honored that I have been given the opportunity to teach 800 new students.
Looking forward to the summer months and a less hectic work schedule as well as some sun time and juicy summer fruit. I'm starting the P-90X Extreme Yoga program soon in my living room, so that should give me something to do this summer! :P
Grace and Peace be with you always!
=)
Wednesday, April 30, 2014
Single and Living Overseas
"Wow, you girls have been here 3 years, that is to be admired! That's so amazing, I don't know if I could imagine being here by myself like that..."
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…Says a friend's husband to my roommate and I. He was graciously helping us with our Apple products yesterday. Two cracked screens, a fried hard drive, and a new phone. We've had it over our eyeballs with dishonest computer and phone distributers here and I'm on phone #4 in one year- NOT because I've broken, lost, or water damaged them all. Quite frankly, I'm sick and tired of dealing in broken Chinese with some 30-something year old dude who sees Laowei (foreigner) and wants to make a few extra bucks off them. I am at their mercy. I can only hope and believe when they tell me I'm getting a real HTC….or Samsung….or the other phone that I don't remember it's brand name…only to have it stop working 3 months later. But yesterday, mercy came to us- in the form of a friend's husband who graciously spent his entire afternoon going up and down low floor and high floor elevators, stairs in between, up and down, and different buildings, to help us get to the right people. Honest people. All the while coming back to, "I just think it's really amazing that you girls can do this, it's just so amazing."
A couple hours pass and one screen is on order, the other one being replaced, no new phone, and decisions about how data from a hard drive should be extracted. Jim starts talking about how when one thing happens, it seems to cause a domino effect. "It's just one thing after another, you know?" He then went on to tell us how the week he was in Macau on business, everything seemed to go wrong at home and his wife was left to deal with it and how badly he felt he wasn't there to take care of it for her. As he talks, I remember: This guy is American, grew up in Taiwan, speaks fluent Chinese, first came to China the year I was born, and moved here with his family a decade ago, and he still thinks living here is a challenge. The challenges I try so hard to shrug off as everyday inconveniences he classifies as straight up frustrating challenges. Suddenly I feel so much better for the amount of stress I carry sometimes. Trying to find a new apartment, looking for a good, real phone, the electric bill coming in way higher than it should, the washing machine breaking, rust in the tub, humidity making it virtually impossible to dry clothes, the faucet shooting water out of the kitchen sink and soaking both operator and kitchen. Stress. The stress I wake up to on a daily basis. The stress that has me curled up in a ball on my bed some evenings, just trying to escape life overseas…and then he says it, "I just wish I was there when it happened to take care of it, but I can deal with some of it when I get back." When it hits me, not in a discontented, envious, or malicious sort of way, but it hits me, "She gets someone to take care of all this stuff with and for her. She has someone coming back who will provide and protect her from the wiles of cultural differences. She gets someone who will call the landlord to fix the dryer she gets, or decide what to do about the dog when it gets a growth on it's ear. She has that security, that convenience. And again, almost a relief floods me. If married couples, one growing up in Taiwan, and one in South America, consider these circumstances challenging, how much more challenging is it to a single, not-yet-fluent-in-Chinese American, grown-in-America girl? I'm told I'm not a normal overseas-American and that I adapt and assimilate well, but there are some things where you just can't take the America out of the girl!
I feel sad, yet slightly triumphant about the whole ordeal. On the crowded bus home, I try to text a friend about a friend who might be able to get me a new phone and my phone, of course, decides to give me, yet another, Failed message. I retype, condense, resend- crossing my fingers that it will decide to send. I feel battered and worn. It's been a long day, apartment shopping in the morning, Computer City in the afternoon, and buying train tickets in the middle. We can't even buy train tickets without some ordeal! It's a pizza kind of night. Pizza and a movie. Then sleep.
I'm allowed to feel this way, I tell myself, I'm allowed to feel battered by the day, the stares, the comments, the questions. I begin to process, to wonder why I never felt allowed to let reality sink in quite as it had that day. Defense mechanism, I think, Defense for survival. If I allowed myself to think of just how many frustrating things happen in the space of a day, I'd go crazy. I don't mean get-stuck-at-a-red-light kind of frustrating. I'm talking a couple of men try to talk to you in Chinese at the bus stop and when you refuse to talk back, they begin talking about you and how you don't understand what they're saying and you're a foreigner, blah, blah, blah…I'm talking, the guy assures you that you are buying a real Samsung Galaxy for ALL that money only to realize a few months later you got another lemon. I'm talking it's an ordeal to get the light bulb in the kitchen fixed, or the stove to light when you have company coming for dinner…trying to leave your apartment complex and getting hit by the bicycle built for 2 (or 3 or 4) because there are too many people on the street and literally none of them know how to ride or control a big bike like that. But they laugh because it's funny, cause they're tourists and it's not every day one gets to hit a laowei with a bicycle built for 2, 3, or 4.
But where is grace now? I do a double take and realize I'm retreating. Retreating inside my fortress and slamming the gate shut. Safety, I just need to take cover. Block out all the noise, the stares, the lies, the disrespect. But didn't I just realize and commit to breaking down those walls of protection? How am I supposed to protect myself of life outside my front door if I'm tearing down those walls? How am I supposed to survive, without a protecter and provider of my own in China? I hear it, I hear it creeping in over me. I hear the words, I'm your Protector, Joanna. I provide every good and perfect thing for you. I want you to run to me, my child, like a little girl battered and bruised, run to me and seek shelter and safety. It does not please me to see you pained like this and as a father does not rest until his daughter is avenged, so I will not rest. I will take you and dry your eyes and clean your wounds, but run to me small child of Mine, run to me and I will engulf you with my love and rest.
Shelter, shelter in Jesus. Safety in my Father. Is this what it means to live "safe" with walls down? It doesn't mean we don't get hurt, but it means He binds up our wounds (Psalm 147:3) So then how should I look at this challenge smeared life? So so differently than I have been. It's like I have to relearn how to live, how to walk out the front door- forget that, how to walk into my bathroom which has had a new distinct smell every time I walk in from my new wonderful upstairs neighbors (Granted, the day it smelled like peppermints were all over the place I didn't mind so much.). This is a new way of life and I'm so unfamiliar with it. How do I live with walls down? No more wall of complaint. No more wall of fear. No more wall of hurt. No more wall of frustration. No more wall of singleness. Crash! No more walls! I feel exposed…and scared. I fear that if I do not protect myself that nobody will. I'm afraid I will walk out into this Labor day holiday on the rainy beach and be flattened by a local fish deliverer who could care less whether I was dead or alive. I might vanish, I might be abused- and badly. Fear, hands rugged from building the walls begin to appear out of no where and start repairing the wall. Aiyo! Frustration, these hands appear too- it's like mutiny of my heart! How do I control them? How do I say to them "Enough is enough! Leave the walls down!" A glimmer of hope as I look up and see the deep, fresh green of trees six stories below. The Little Things, I tell myself, it's the little things in life. The gifts. This is where everything starts to come together. We've been reading a book called 1,000 Gifts by Ann Voskamp and it's all about one word: Eucharisteo. Remembering to see all as an act of grace and give thanks.
But how do I see the student lying to my face and defending themselves in Chinese to their teachers who dismiss it and move on as eucharisteo? I wonder. How do I see the tourists invading my introvert bubble as eucharisteo? How do I knock down the walls and demolish them so well that I can finally see clearly through the eyes of Jesus…the eyes of Grace? This is a complete cleansing, a revamping of total way of life, no, total way of thinking. This is a heart and mind renovation. An eye renovation. Once I can give thanks for the challenge, the frustration, those walls can no longer be built. Once I follow my Shepherd to shelter from the storm, the wall of fear for protection can no longer be repaired. The old walls come down and are burned and I can experience the freedom of this life that God has so abundantly given me. I can run and dance and sing in the green pastures because I see them for what they are, and I see the valley of the shadow of death for what it is, just a moment. Just a moment in exchange for the eternal joy- the ultimate purpose in life- Life with the Father.
…………..
…Says a friend's husband to my roommate and I. He was graciously helping us with our Apple products yesterday. Two cracked screens, a fried hard drive, and a new phone. We've had it over our eyeballs with dishonest computer and phone distributers here and I'm on phone #4 in one year- NOT because I've broken, lost, or water damaged them all. Quite frankly, I'm sick and tired of dealing in broken Chinese with some 30-something year old dude who sees Laowei (foreigner) and wants to make a few extra bucks off them. I am at their mercy. I can only hope and believe when they tell me I'm getting a real HTC….or Samsung….or the other phone that I don't remember it's brand name…only to have it stop working 3 months later. But yesterday, mercy came to us- in the form of a friend's husband who graciously spent his entire afternoon going up and down low floor and high floor elevators, stairs in between, up and down, and different buildings, to help us get to the right people. Honest people. All the while coming back to, "I just think it's really amazing that you girls can do this, it's just so amazing."
A couple hours pass and one screen is on order, the other one being replaced, no new phone, and decisions about how data from a hard drive should be extracted. Jim starts talking about how when one thing happens, it seems to cause a domino effect. "It's just one thing after another, you know?" He then went on to tell us how the week he was in Macau on business, everything seemed to go wrong at home and his wife was left to deal with it and how badly he felt he wasn't there to take care of it for her. As he talks, I remember: This guy is American, grew up in Taiwan, speaks fluent Chinese, first came to China the year I was born, and moved here with his family a decade ago, and he still thinks living here is a challenge. The challenges I try so hard to shrug off as everyday inconveniences he classifies as straight up frustrating challenges. Suddenly I feel so much better for the amount of stress I carry sometimes. Trying to find a new apartment, looking for a good, real phone, the electric bill coming in way higher than it should, the washing machine breaking, rust in the tub, humidity making it virtually impossible to dry clothes, the faucet shooting water out of the kitchen sink and soaking both operator and kitchen. Stress. The stress I wake up to on a daily basis. The stress that has me curled up in a ball on my bed some evenings, just trying to escape life overseas…and then he says it, "I just wish I was there when it happened to take care of it, but I can deal with some of it when I get back." When it hits me, not in a discontented, envious, or malicious sort of way, but it hits me, "She gets someone to take care of all this stuff with and for her. She has someone coming back who will provide and protect her from the wiles of cultural differences. She gets someone who will call the landlord to fix the dryer she gets, or decide what to do about the dog when it gets a growth on it's ear. She has that security, that convenience. And again, almost a relief floods me. If married couples, one growing up in Taiwan, and one in South America, consider these circumstances challenging, how much more challenging is it to a single, not-yet-fluent-in-Chinese American, grown-in-America girl? I'm told I'm not a normal overseas-American and that I adapt and assimilate well, but there are some things where you just can't take the America out of the girl!
I feel sad, yet slightly triumphant about the whole ordeal. On the crowded bus home, I try to text a friend about a friend who might be able to get me a new phone and my phone, of course, decides to give me, yet another, Failed message. I retype, condense, resend- crossing my fingers that it will decide to send. I feel battered and worn. It's been a long day, apartment shopping in the morning, Computer City in the afternoon, and buying train tickets in the middle. We can't even buy train tickets without some ordeal! It's a pizza kind of night. Pizza and a movie. Then sleep.
I'm allowed to feel this way, I tell myself, I'm allowed to feel battered by the day, the stares, the comments, the questions. I begin to process, to wonder why I never felt allowed to let reality sink in quite as it had that day. Defense mechanism, I think, Defense for survival. If I allowed myself to think of just how many frustrating things happen in the space of a day, I'd go crazy. I don't mean get-stuck-at-a-red-light kind of frustrating. I'm talking a couple of men try to talk to you in Chinese at the bus stop and when you refuse to talk back, they begin talking about you and how you don't understand what they're saying and you're a foreigner, blah, blah, blah…I'm talking, the guy assures you that you are buying a real Samsung Galaxy for ALL that money only to realize a few months later you got another lemon. I'm talking it's an ordeal to get the light bulb in the kitchen fixed, or the stove to light when you have company coming for dinner…trying to leave your apartment complex and getting hit by the bicycle built for 2 (or 3 or 4) because there are too many people on the street and literally none of them know how to ride or control a big bike like that. But they laugh because it's funny, cause they're tourists and it's not every day one gets to hit a laowei with a bicycle built for 2, 3, or 4.
But where is grace now? I do a double take and realize I'm retreating. Retreating inside my fortress and slamming the gate shut. Safety, I just need to take cover. Block out all the noise, the stares, the lies, the disrespect. But didn't I just realize and commit to breaking down those walls of protection? How am I supposed to protect myself of life outside my front door if I'm tearing down those walls? How am I supposed to survive, without a protecter and provider of my own in China? I hear it, I hear it creeping in over me. I hear the words, I'm your Protector, Joanna. I provide every good and perfect thing for you. I want you to run to me, my child, like a little girl battered and bruised, run to me and seek shelter and safety. It does not please me to see you pained like this and as a father does not rest until his daughter is avenged, so I will not rest. I will take you and dry your eyes and clean your wounds, but run to me small child of Mine, run to me and I will engulf you with my love and rest.
Shelter, shelter in Jesus. Safety in my Father. Is this what it means to live "safe" with walls down? It doesn't mean we don't get hurt, but it means He binds up our wounds (Psalm 147:3) So then how should I look at this challenge smeared life? So so differently than I have been. It's like I have to relearn how to live, how to walk out the front door- forget that, how to walk into my bathroom which has had a new distinct smell every time I walk in from my new wonderful upstairs neighbors (Granted, the day it smelled like peppermints were all over the place I didn't mind so much.). This is a new way of life and I'm so unfamiliar with it. How do I live with walls down? No more wall of complaint. No more wall of fear. No more wall of hurt. No more wall of frustration. No more wall of singleness. Crash! No more walls! I feel exposed…and scared. I fear that if I do not protect myself that nobody will. I'm afraid I will walk out into this Labor day holiday on the rainy beach and be flattened by a local fish deliverer who could care less whether I was dead or alive. I might vanish, I might be abused- and badly. Fear, hands rugged from building the walls begin to appear out of no where and start repairing the wall. Aiyo! Frustration, these hands appear too- it's like mutiny of my heart! How do I control them? How do I say to them "Enough is enough! Leave the walls down!" A glimmer of hope as I look up and see the deep, fresh green of trees six stories below. The Little Things, I tell myself, it's the little things in life. The gifts. This is where everything starts to come together. We've been reading a book called 1,000 Gifts by Ann Voskamp and it's all about one word: Eucharisteo. Remembering to see all as an act of grace and give thanks.
But how do I see the student lying to my face and defending themselves in Chinese to their teachers who dismiss it and move on as eucharisteo? I wonder. How do I see the tourists invading my introvert bubble as eucharisteo? How do I knock down the walls and demolish them so well that I can finally see clearly through the eyes of Jesus…the eyes of Grace? This is a complete cleansing, a revamping of total way of life, no, total way of thinking. This is a heart and mind renovation. An eye renovation. Once I can give thanks for the challenge, the frustration, those walls can no longer be built. Once I follow my Shepherd to shelter from the storm, the wall of fear for protection can no longer be repaired. The old walls come down and are burned and I can experience the freedom of this life that God has so abundantly given me. I can run and dance and sing in the green pastures because I see them for what they are, and I see the valley of the shadow of death for what it is, just a moment. Just a moment in exchange for the eternal joy- the ultimate purpose in life- Life with the Father.
Sunday, April 27, 2014
…And it won't be the last...
"It wasn't my first puddle," said my friend's Mom chuckling, "and it won't be the last, I'm sure." The rest of us looked sympathetically down at her now soaked black Bob's and tried not to think of what was growing in that milky red dirt puddle. Then it hit me,
Why is it that such seemingly minuscule moments seem to impact me so deeply? When I was in high school my dream was to become a published photographer. I was going to publish a book, and the title? The Little Things. Throughout high school and into college God awakened my senses to the small every day "gifts" as author Ann Voskamp describes them. I wanted to capture them all with my camera and show the world, because I knew that so many of us walk right past the veins in a leaf so intricately placed, without even stopping to notice their existence. I too, in these last few years started walking right past such miracles and blessings without stopping to think about them- until this weekend. Those last 7 words my friend's mother uttered almost physically stopped me in my tracks.
Suddenly the entire world started spinning. I look around me, there are cars lining the small mountain road and I think, "What if one of them hit me right now?" or "What if we don't make it back to Xiamen tomorrow because of some freak accident?" Neither worry nor fear birthed these questions, but rather the realization that we cannot make the assumption that we know what the next day, let alone the next moment will hold for us!
You would think I, of all people, should know this, as my own Dad was taken home so suddenly my sophomore year in college. And I did know it then, but I never really grasped the goodness of this truth. I viewed the truth through lenses of hurt and fear. You never know what is going to happen, I would tell myself so live life to the fullest and leave no regrets.
And so my life's motto was born:
What closed them? I wonder. Fear. The word came instantly. Fear has been my teacher and constant companion. Fear of rejection, fear of the phone ringing and hearing that someone else in my family has been taken suddenly. Fear that I would miss God's best for me, fear that I would lose my family because my calling and choices have taken me half-way across the planet. Fear that someone might actually mean it when they said they loved me, not because of what I could do for them, but because of how we are truly like "iron sharpening iron". What was the cause for this dominating fear? Hurt. And so I have gone along building up walls of protection with the words No Regrets stamped all over them. Thinking I had done myself a great service, surely I would not regret something I never let myself feel or experience. I would be safe. I could be happy. Hold one, I would tell myself, just hold on a little bit more, they will leave and you will realize, they were just like all the others. But it's okay, because you didn't trust with abandon, so you're safe. It won't hurt as much this time.
Hold on, be strong, in no time you will be stronger from holding on. Just another day of this and then the sun will come out. They will listen to reason and understand…
Leave the conversation till tomorrow and explain it again, then they'll get it…
I'm missing something. The hurt strangles my joy and I realize I have a fortress. The temporary surge walls I've built around my heart, I realize are not just surge walls, but thick walls. Walls that keep me from seeing the white circle just inside the big brown circle on the wing of the white butterflies that have just recently emerged from Spring. Walls that let me say things like, "I'll have tomorrow to fix that." "I've been hurt before and it certainly won't be the last time so get ready for the storm, look for the storm, protect yourself for the storm." Walls that shut the Light out in the name of holding on to truth. My self-proclaimed truth. Walls that keep Truth Himself out.
I've spent most of my life "filling in the blanks" for God. He allows us to live in some realm of mystery in that He has our days numbered and written down in His book, but we have yet to live them. We don't know the end, we don't even know the whole story- yet sometimes we fill in the blanks so that we can maintain some sort of control over our circumstances, or at least our reactions. But again, in filling in the blanks, we determine our own destiny. We determine our will is better than God's. We take our life into our own hands and proclaim our own wisdom and sovereignty to steer our lives. Such a life is foolishness! What is that verse from the New Testament?
Find your life, my dear friend, find it in Him. This is where freedom is. There is no fear where the Spirit of the Lord is. No malice, envy, jealousy, pride, or hurt. There is no room for such attitudes or characteristics. We call ourselves Christian, yet keep the good fruits locked up in our fortresses to rot. Today is the day to break down the walls and open the orchards of good fruit to all we meet. Let them taste and see that the Lord is good. Oh how would our churches change if we all opened ourselves to each other to taste and see that the Lord is good. He inhabits the very soul and being of His disciples. We can hoard or we can share. What will your response be?
"How can you really be sure?"…………………..
Why is it that such seemingly minuscule moments seem to impact me so deeply? When I was in high school my dream was to become a published photographer. I was going to publish a book, and the title? The Little Things. Throughout high school and into college God awakened my senses to the small every day "gifts" as author Ann Voskamp describes them. I wanted to capture them all with my camera and show the world, because I knew that so many of us walk right past the veins in a leaf so intricately placed, without even stopping to notice their existence. I too, in these last few years started walking right past such miracles and blessings without stopping to think about them- until this weekend. Those last 7 words my friend's mother uttered almost physically stopped me in my tracks.
Suddenly the entire world started spinning. I look around me, there are cars lining the small mountain road and I think, "What if one of them hit me right now?" or "What if we don't make it back to Xiamen tomorrow because of some freak accident?" Neither worry nor fear birthed these questions, but rather the realization that we cannot make the assumption that we know what the next day, let alone the next moment will hold for us!
You would think I, of all people, should know this, as my own Dad was taken home so suddenly my sophomore year in college. And I did know it then, but I never really grasped the goodness of this truth. I viewed the truth through lenses of hurt and fear. You never know what is going to happen, I would tell myself so live life to the fullest and leave no regrets.
And so my life's motto was born:
No regretsNone. No regret in your last interaction with anyone. No regret for what you ate or didn't eat. No regret in buying that things or not buying it (which my Mom tells me gets her into trouble sometimes :). No regret in the choices made, no regret in deed done or left undone. No regret in what was said or left unsaid. No regrets. I don't want to look back on my 20's full of regret (or any stage of life for that matter). I want to live life open-handed and with abandon- this is my goal, yet on that red dirt road in the middle of the Hakka Tulou villages, I realized how tightly I've closed my hands.
What closed them? I wonder. Fear. The word came instantly. Fear has been my teacher and constant companion. Fear of rejection, fear of the phone ringing and hearing that someone else in my family has been taken suddenly. Fear that I would miss God's best for me, fear that I would lose my family because my calling and choices have taken me half-way across the planet. Fear that someone might actually mean it when they said they loved me, not because of what I could do for them, but because of how we are truly like "iron sharpening iron". What was the cause for this dominating fear? Hurt. And so I have gone along building up walls of protection with the words No Regrets stamped all over them. Thinking I had done myself a great service, surely I would not regret something I never let myself feel or experience. I would be safe. I could be happy. Hold one, I would tell myself, just hold on a little bit more, they will leave and you will realize, they were just like all the others. But it's okay, because you didn't trust with abandon, so you're safe. It won't hurt as much this time.
Hold on, be strong, in no time you will be stronger from holding on. Just another day of this and then the sun will come out. They will listen to reason and understand…
Leave the conversation till tomorrow and explain it again, then they'll get it…
I'm missing something. The hurt strangles my joy and I realize I have a fortress. The temporary surge walls I've built around my heart, I realize are not just surge walls, but thick walls. Walls that keep me from seeing the white circle just inside the big brown circle on the wing of the white butterflies that have just recently emerged from Spring. Walls that let me say things like, "I'll have tomorrow to fix that." "I've been hurt before and it certainly won't be the last time so get ready for the storm, look for the storm, protect yourself for the storm." Walls that shut the Light out in the name of holding on to truth. My self-proclaimed truth. Walls that keep Truth Himself out.
I've spent most of my life "filling in the blanks" for God. He allows us to live in some realm of mystery in that He has our days numbered and written down in His book, but we have yet to live them. We don't know the end, we don't even know the whole story- yet sometimes we fill in the blanks so that we can maintain some sort of control over our circumstances, or at least our reactions. But again, in filling in the blanks, we determine our own destiny. We determine our will is better than God's. We take our life into our own hands and proclaim our own wisdom and sovereignty to steer our lives. Such a life is foolishness! What is that verse from the New Testament?
Come now, you who say, “Today or tomorrow we will go into such and such a town and spend a year there and trade and make a profit”— yet you do not know what tomorrow will bring. What is your life? For you are a mist that appears for a little time and then vanishes. Instead you ought to say, “If the Lord wills, we will live and do this or that.” As it is, you boast in your arrogance. All such boasting is evil. So whoever knows the right thing to do and fails to do it, for him it is sin. James 4:13-17So I've grown up hearing. Yet how much of my life is really lived through this lens? The lens of Scripture: the lens of today, no tomorrow. My Redeemer lives and redeems my days and my hurts and fears, thank God. Thank God my Redeemer lives! But it's time to trade our sorrows, Christian. It's time to trade our sorrows for the joy of the Lord! Lay it down. Lay down the fear that keeps you holding on to your life,
For whoever whats to save his life will lose it; but whoever loses his life for my sake, will find it. Matthew 16:25
Find your life, my dear friend, find it in Him. This is where freedom is. There is no fear where the Spirit of the Lord is. No malice, envy, jealousy, pride, or hurt. There is no room for such attitudes or characteristics. We call ourselves Christian, yet keep the good fruits locked up in our fortresses to rot. Today is the day to break down the walls and open the orchards of good fruit to all we meet. Let them taste and see that the Lord is good. Oh how would our churches change if we all opened ourselves to each other to taste and see that the Lord is good. He inhabits the very soul and being of His disciples. We can hoard or we can share. What will your response be?
Friday, March 7, 2014
Gladly Would I Leave Behind Me
Gladly would I leave behind me all the pleasures I have known to pursue surpassing treasures at the throne of God the Son. Worthy of unending worship, love and loveliness is He. By His precious death were millions from the jaws of death set free.
Gladly would I give to Jesus all affection, everything- for the washing of His mercy makes my ransomed heart to sing. Holy, Holy, is the chorus rising up from those who see Christ exalted, bright and burning, full of power and purity.
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My heart is sad as I write this post. For several reasons.
I just bought the new album From Age to Age by Sovereign Grace Music- great stuff- I've had the second half of the album (starting at Glorious Christ) on repeat for most of the day. My heart has been refreshed, reminded, and renewed in hope. The last two days I've found myself on the verge of tears out of sheer awe and humility before the sight of such a holy God's love for me and awesome power. I find myself almost contemplating skipping my next class to sit with Him, lost in worship, not wanting anything to pull me out- just to stay there, in awe, speechless, completely unable to express with words what I feel in my heart of gratitude, love, and utter humility before God.
This morning though, as I walked to school with my bag of niu rou bao and cha ji dan swinging in one hand and travel mug of steaming hot Dunkin Donuts (brewed at home) in the other, my heart felt heavy. The song Gladly Would I Leave Behind Me came on. My initial response was, "Of course, Lord, You know I would gladly give you whatever You ask- we've had this conversation so many times, You know my heart!" But something caused me to start the song over again and really process each word and the gravity of singing such words to a righteous God.
I began to think about the last five years or so (Mostly the last two, but I did some comparing to past years). I thought about my life in China, how I so gladly gave up a familiar country, culture, language, and daily culinary experiences to move to a foreign country, and culture to learn a difficult language, and not get the special favorite foods that I crave sometimes on a daily basis. I gave up a lot to be where I am at today; I should be able to sing this song with gusto- at least more heart-felt than the average American Christian- after all, I haven't just sung it, I've done it in a very real way.
As I listened again, this time more critically and purposefully, I felt tears welling up in my eyes. This time the tears weren't because of adoration, they were tears of knowing just how much more I have to let go of. Yes, I would gladly pursue the surpassing treasures at the throne of God, and yes, my heart screams out, "Holy, holy, holy, are You, Lord, God Almighty!" Over and over again it sings and cries out, unable to sing loud enough, unable to express fully how much honor and glory is due His name. The chorus goes on:
The third verse says:
Gladly would I give to Jesus all affection. Even the affection you desire to have towards a spouse (someday for me!) or child (again, we all know this…someday, someday…)? Would you give Him a few extra minutes in a day? Would you give up your soft bed and a good night's sleep if that was your affection? Would you sacrifice the comforts of a modern home without complaint if it meant bending over so you cooked, every night, hunched over in a way that caused your back to cramp? What if it meant taking a bus instead of a taxi to work- would you give it up, or would your friends have to say they wished you would take the taxi so you stopped complaining about the inconvenience?
Gladly would I leave behind me all the pleasures I have known. Really? Leave behind? Not looking back, lest you, like Lot's wife, become crippled by your affection for what you were leaving. Leave behind the comfortable sleeping schedule, the free weekends to go shopping for clothes, jewelry, electronics, or appliances that aren't really needed? Leave behind the traditional church services to pursue passionate, real-life, transparent times of worship and confession with people we aren't afraid to share our hearts with? Could you really do that?
So, Where else could we go? We go to Kohls to stock up on some inexpensive, but still trendy, pretty good quality pieces that we'll just end up replacing in a few months- excusing the excessive spending by reminding ourselves that we always send our old clothes to the orphans in Haiti or the Dominican Republic. Has it ever crossed our minds to go to Kohls to buy the orphans in Haiti or the DR the inexpensive, but still trendy, pretty good quality pieces?
Where do we go? To church where we can look good to our fellow Christians by singing, lifting our hands in worship and maybe even shedding a few tears during the music, adding a few head nods and amens throughout the sermon, and taking impeccable notes that we'll never actually read again, because it proves to everyone around us that we are paying attention in church and value what we're hearing. We ask, "How are you doing, sister, I mean really?" and find our minds wondering to what we'll eat for lunch after we leave, or run through our to-do list for the week, while our brother or sister actually starts to pour out a little bit of their hearts. We warmly tell them, "I'll be praying for you in that situation" and walk away wondering what it was we were supposed to be praying for. Our appearance impeccable, but our hearts holding on to the familiar, fear gripping at every corner if we stepped out of our comfort zone.
What else could we do? Fill our days with extra classes and pursue further education because, "Society demands it these days, you can't get a job anymore without a Master's degree!" Fill our free moments by catching up on our favorite TV series' because, "I finally have 'me' time". We join or single's or married couple's groups, because it's nice to be around people our age and time of life, forgetting that we could have an invaluable impact on someone outside of "our group". Our conversations are filled with, "what happened at work this week" stories, and "did you see that Packer's game Saturday night? I can't believe that ref recalled that final touchdown for an offsides call, he wasn't even close!" (I use the Packers because they really are the only NFL team worth mentioning. :P ). Yet, we don't consider talking about the nitty gritty of the struggles or temptations we faced that week. We don't just sit in awe and wonder of our Creator.
Now, I by no means want to clump all professing believers together to label them as insincere. I do not believe that every person that has ever asked me how I was really doing, checked out 5 seconds into the conversation and really didn't care- on the contrary, I have been greatly blessed by the body of Christ and have felt the warmth and sincerity or those truly committed to Christ and furthering the kingdom. The last thing that I want is for this blog to make it seem that I have a seared view of Christians or harbor bitterness to any situations that I have been in or observed around me. Again, I have been blessed to be exposed to some really solid churches and people.
I began this post by saying, "My heart is sad". It's sad because I know my own struggles to remain faithful to God. I know my own weaknesses and the vivacity in which I sing songs like, Gladly Would I Leave Behind Me, and walk away feeling good about my recommitment and worship to God, but missing the question that Jesus is really asking. He doesn't want my words, He doesn't want my sincerest musical offering. He wants my heart, and as long as I am enamored with the things that will not pass with me into eternity, He does not have the whole thing.
So ask with me, "Will it pass into eternity?" As a friend and mentor recently reminded me, not even marriage passes with us into eternity- not even your spouse will pass on with you! How much better could our time be spent? What would truly full surrender look like?
Gladly would I give to Jesus all affection, everything- for the washing of His mercy makes my ransomed heart to sing. Holy, Holy, is the chorus rising up from those who see Christ exalted, bright and burning, full of power and purity.
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My heart is sad as I write this post. For several reasons.
I just bought the new album From Age to Age by Sovereign Grace Music- great stuff- I've had the second half of the album (starting at Glorious Christ) on repeat for most of the day. My heart has been refreshed, reminded, and renewed in hope. The last two days I've found myself on the verge of tears out of sheer awe and humility before the sight of such a holy God's love for me and awesome power. I find myself almost contemplating skipping my next class to sit with Him, lost in worship, not wanting anything to pull me out- just to stay there, in awe, speechless, completely unable to express with words what I feel in my heart of gratitude, love, and utter humility before God.
This morning though, as I walked to school with my bag of niu rou bao and cha ji dan swinging in one hand and travel mug of steaming hot Dunkin Donuts (brewed at home) in the other, my heart felt heavy. The song Gladly Would I Leave Behind Me came on. My initial response was, "Of course, Lord, You know I would gladly give you whatever You ask- we've had this conversation so many times, You know my heart!" But something caused me to start the song over again and really process each word and the gravity of singing such words to a righteous God.
I began to think about the last five years or so (Mostly the last two, but I did some comparing to past years). I thought about my life in China, how I so gladly gave up a familiar country, culture, language, and daily culinary experiences to move to a foreign country, and culture to learn a difficult language, and not get the special favorite foods that I crave sometimes on a daily basis. I gave up a lot to be where I am at today; I should be able to sing this song with gusto- at least more heart-felt than the average American Christian- after all, I haven't just sung it, I've done it in a very real way.
As I listened again, this time more critically and purposefully, I felt tears welling up in my eyes. This time the tears weren't because of adoration, they were tears of knowing just how much more I have to let go of. Yes, I would gladly pursue the surpassing treasures at the throne of God, and yes, my heart screams out, "Holy, holy, holy, are You, Lord, God Almighty!" Over and over again it sings and cries out, unable to sing loud enough, unable to express fully how much honor and glory is due His name. The chorus goes on:
Where else can I go? Jesus, You're the One that I was made to know. What else can I do? Jesus, You're my all I gladly run to.My instantaneous response to hear these words was, "How can we ask that as though our hearts aren't tempted to run away from the sacrifice at every step or corner!" My heart sank as I thought of the many places and things I could go to or do that would prove my words vain and meaningless.
The third verse says:
Gladly would I flee temptations for their troubles fill my life. Turn and seek my gladdened Savior for His goodness satisfies. Earthly treasures all are passing, thieves break in and rust destroys, but in God are awesome splendor, love and lasting joysYes, we know this. Many of us have grown up on these words. "Moth and rust decay the earthly treasures, lay up for yourselves treasure in heaven", yet we live for earthly pleasures. Though we don't call them this, we live for family, job, financial stability, social status, acceptance, and approval. Gladly would I flee temptations, really? Would you really flee temptation? What if that temptation came in the form of your family? Would you flee them? Would you be able to turn your back if God said, "Come away with me to an unfamiliar land that I will show you." Without even knowing your destination, could you say to them, "I don't know where I'm going, or what I'm going to do when I get there, but I have to leave you all now, I love you, but I can't stay here." Would you flee temptation if it was someone in your family saying those words to you? Could you let them go? Would you flee temptation if it came in the form of financial stability in a new job that promised a stable paycheck and good hours, but caused your relationships to suffer? Would you flee temptation if it came in the form of hearing your family give their blessing on your life, choice of spouse, job, or country of residence?
Gladly would I give to Jesus all affection. Even the affection you desire to have towards a spouse (someday for me!) or child (again, we all know this…someday, someday…)? Would you give Him a few extra minutes in a day? Would you give up your soft bed and a good night's sleep if that was your affection? Would you sacrifice the comforts of a modern home without complaint if it meant bending over so you cooked, every night, hunched over in a way that caused your back to cramp? What if it meant taking a bus instead of a taxi to work- would you give it up, or would your friends have to say they wished you would take the taxi so you stopped complaining about the inconvenience?
Gladly would I leave behind me all the pleasures I have known. Really? Leave behind? Not looking back, lest you, like Lot's wife, become crippled by your affection for what you were leaving. Leave behind the comfortable sleeping schedule, the free weekends to go shopping for clothes, jewelry, electronics, or appliances that aren't really needed? Leave behind the traditional church services to pursue passionate, real-life, transparent times of worship and confession with people we aren't afraid to share our hearts with? Could you really do that?
So, Where else could we go? We go to Kohls to stock up on some inexpensive, but still trendy, pretty good quality pieces that we'll just end up replacing in a few months- excusing the excessive spending by reminding ourselves that we always send our old clothes to the orphans in Haiti or the Dominican Republic. Has it ever crossed our minds to go to Kohls to buy the orphans in Haiti or the DR the inexpensive, but still trendy, pretty good quality pieces?
Where do we go? To church where we can look good to our fellow Christians by singing, lifting our hands in worship and maybe even shedding a few tears during the music, adding a few head nods and amens throughout the sermon, and taking impeccable notes that we'll never actually read again, because it proves to everyone around us that we are paying attention in church and value what we're hearing. We ask, "How are you doing, sister, I mean really?" and find our minds wondering to what we'll eat for lunch after we leave, or run through our to-do list for the week, while our brother or sister actually starts to pour out a little bit of their hearts. We warmly tell them, "I'll be praying for you in that situation" and walk away wondering what it was we were supposed to be praying for. Our appearance impeccable, but our hearts holding on to the familiar, fear gripping at every corner if we stepped out of our comfort zone.
What else could we do? Fill our days with extra classes and pursue further education because, "Society demands it these days, you can't get a job anymore without a Master's degree!" Fill our free moments by catching up on our favorite TV series' because, "I finally have 'me' time". We join or single's or married couple's groups, because it's nice to be around people our age and time of life, forgetting that we could have an invaluable impact on someone outside of "our group". Our conversations are filled with, "what happened at work this week" stories, and "did you see that Packer's game Saturday night? I can't believe that ref recalled that final touchdown for an offsides call, he wasn't even close!" (I use the Packers because they really are the only NFL team worth mentioning. :P ). Yet, we don't consider talking about the nitty gritty of the struggles or temptations we faced that week. We don't just sit in awe and wonder of our Creator.
Now, I by no means want to clump all professing believers together to label them as insincere. I do not believe that every person that has ever asked me how I was really doing, checked out 5 seconds into the conversation and really didn't care- on the contrary, I have been greatly blessed by the body of Christ and have felt the warmth and sincerity or those truly committed to Christ and furthering the kingdom. The last thing that I want is for this blog to make it seem that I have a seared view of Christians or harbor bitterness to any situations that I have been in or observed around me. Again, I have been blessed to be exposed to some really solid churches and people.
I began this post by saying, "My heart is sad". It's sad because I know my own struggles to remain faithful to God. I know my own weaknesses and the vivacity in which I sing songs like, Gladly Would I Leave Behind Me, and walk away feeling good about my recommitment and worship to God, but missing the question that Jesus is really asking. He doesn't want my words, He doesn't want my sincerest musical offering. He wants my heart, and as long as I am enamored with the things that will not pass with me into eternity, He does not have the whole thing.
So ask with me, "Will it pass into eternity?" As a friend and mentor recently reminded me, not even marriage passes with us into eternity- not even your spouse will pass on with you! How much better could our time be spent? What would truly full surrender look like?
As long as I am enamored with the things that will not pass with me into eternity, He does not have the whole thing.Oh Abba, that I would give up those earthly things that so easily enamor and distract from You. For You are worthy of all praise and all my heart! That I not look back, wishing for the comforts of my world, but step by step, eyes forward, walk in faith, hand in hand with You until we reach the Promised Land.
Monday, February 10, 2014
A Whirlwind of a Trip
Warm winds, blue skies, clear sunshine, fresh air, white beaches, and green mountains…summer in the middle of winter <3
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So a quick update as to how my recent trip to Thailand went. First, I have to give you the background of the whole thing:
I received an invitation to help run a children's program at a conference in Thailand back in October. I really wanted to go, but I really didn't see how I could afford the trip as I'm still paying back my trip to the States from last summer. However, I started praying about it- asking that if the Lord wanted me to go, He would provide for it. November came around and I still hadn't committed fully to going for fear that I wouldn't have the funds. A friend came to me near the middle of November and stated that they were going to pay for my trip to Thailand. At first I said, "Absolutely not"….and they assured me I would come around and be able to accept the gift. As I pondered whether or not to accept such an extravagant gift, the Lord reminded me that I had been praying for such a miracle.
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Three months later…
I was so happy to be leaving the cold, polluted Xiamen air. We got into Macau around 9pm and made our way to our hotel for the night- our flight had been changed and we had an overnight layover +6 hrs the next day, so we planned to sleep late and explore the next day- which we did. It was a super laid back day, but good as our last week in Xiamen was a bit tense.
Flew into Bangkok the following evening and, upon arrival of our second hotel, went out in search of mango sticky rice and pad thai. Which we found and devoured. It was so. good. We met up with our team the following morning to leave for the conference we were volunteering at.
Four hours later, I was stunned to be in a five star resort that had a massive swimming pool (complete with water slide and a waterfall) and we jumped into team meetings. This place was absolutely gorgeous! The air fresh, the skies a flawless blue, and the greens richer than I remember ever seeing before. It was heaven in winter. The first meeting/mixer was a bit rough, but dinner made up for the stress of figuring out logistics. The food at the place, oh my, the food was just too good. I can't even think of a word for how good this food was. Meal times, though normally a highlight of my day, became almost a sole event of the day. I almost lived for those meals. (I think I gained weight while there…. :)
The following day, we dove in head first to the kids program. I had the privilege of working with 8-9 beautiful, intelligent 7-11 year old foreign children (aka Not Asian). Over the course of the week I was able to build relationships with these kids who are living all over Asia with their families. It was a privilege and a joy to see how God used this week to encourage and build them up. Over all, though a bit exhausting, running around with 7-11 year olds, it was a blast! There were only two afternoons that we had to run a program so the remaining afternoons were spent by the pool catching a few rays, or taking a day trip into the neighboring city of Hua Hin. Over all though, God really used this week to speak to me about repentance, redemption, surrender, leadership, and courage. I will expound more on these points in later blogs- I don't want to overwhelm ya'll in this one… :)
We left the resort one week after arriving and drove back to Bangkok. After a terrifying set of taxi rides, we made it to the main market street and bought our bus tickets down to Koh Samui and did some, what I call, blitz shopping (aka running into a stall and bargaining and purchasing something in less than 5 minutes). After a very long overnight bus to Surathani, we waited for 2 hours for the bus to the ferry where we had a 1 and a half hour ferry to the island.
The waters of Koh Samui were simply stunning, varying between an emerald green and turquoise blue. It was incredibly hot as the sun is so intense that close to the equator, but it felt good. Especially on winter skin.
I never remember just how much of a Florida girl I am until I'm deprived of four main key items: Alligator jerky, Key Lime anything, sun, and beaches. When I don't have access to these, I am not a happy camper. Koh Samui gave me two of those fore necessities, so I was pretty happy…about as happy as a camel in a drought!
Sunday afternoon after arriving, and Monday were spent in the sun on the beach, eating green curry at a beachside restaurant, and freshly grilled corn on the cob, chicken, prawns, and spring rolls from a beach vendor. So good.
Tuesday we went on a sea safari, which was basically amazing. It consisted of a 1 hour boat ride to Anthong National Park (a group of islands in the Gulf of Thailand) to go snorkeling, hiking to a green lagoon, kayaking, relaxing on a beach, eating lunch, sight-seeing from the boat, and back to the main island for a short elephant ride. An absolute experience of a life time! (Also more on some of these adventures later)
Wednesday was a half beach day, half motorbike/cooking class day. I had the unique opportunity to take a cooking class at the Samui Institute of Thai Culinary Arts! It was definitely an awesome experience. I got to experiment with some native Thai ingredients and cooked three dishes: Green Curry with Chicken, Chicken Pad Thai, and Coconut Lime Chicken Soup. All of which were simply amazing. Especially the soup- I was kind of surprised by how savory it was!
Thursday we got up super early (aka 4:30am) to taxi back to the ferry to the bus, to the taxi, to the train station, to Bangkok. We got adventurous and took a train for the first time in Thailand- I've had bad experiences with every bus in Thailand so far, so Ray and I decided to see if taking a train would be a little less traumatizing- it was. It was wonderful, and we got to see so much more of the Thai countryside as we were traveling during the day and were not confined to a highway. It was definitely a good experience.
We flew out of Bangkok around 3 am, only to arrive exhausted back in Macau for another 8 hour layover. After getting kicked out of baggage claim (after mean lady number 3 woke us up), we went to the Hard Rock Hotel in hopes of finding breakfast. Apparently Macau does not believe in breakfast because we could only find one place that served breakfast. And boy was it worth every Macau Pataca it cost! There was an omelet station, rosemary and sausage roasted potatoes, smoked ham, three different international cheeses, blueberry and cheese brioche, cinnamon brioche, about 6 different types of bread, coffee, tea, grapefruit juice, cranberry juice, cereal, fruit, unlimited tea and coffee (and that was only the western side of the buffet…. (and they gave us clean cutlery half way through the meal!!!!!) Over all, it was a little much needed, well deserved pampering after being up almost all night traveling. We explored the historic sights of Macau for the rest of the day and enjoyed one last western meal before heading to the airport to return to Xiamen…..only to have our flight delayed.
No worries, a few hours later I found myself all snuggled up in my Xiamen bed. No movement, no bumps, no headlights in my eyes, no turbulence, no mean ladies to wake me up. =)
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So a quick update as to how my recent trip to Thailand went. First, I have to give you the background of the whole thing:
I received an invitation to help run a children's program at a conference in Thailand back in October. I really wanted to go, but I really didn't see how I could afford the trip as I'm still paying back my trip to the States from last summer. However, I started praying about it- asking that if the Lord wanted me to go, He would provide for it. November came around and I still hadn't committed fully to going for fear that I wouldn't have the funds. A friend came to me near the middle of November and stated that they were going to pay for my trip to Thailand. At first I said, "Absolutely not"….and they assured me I would come around and be able to accept the gift. As I pondered whether or not to accept such an extravagant gift, the Lord reminded me that I had been praying for such a miracle.
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Three months later…
I was so happy to be leaving the cold, polluted Xiamen air. We got into Macau around 9pm and made our way to our hotel for the night- our flight had been changed and we had an overnight layover +6 hrs the next day, so we planned to sleep late and explore the next day- which we did. It was a super laid back day, but good as our last week in Xiamen was a bit tense.
Flew into Bangkok the following evening and, upon arrival of our second hotel, went out in search of mango sticky rice and pad thai. Which we found and devoured. It was so. good. We met up with our team the following morning to leave for the conference we were volunteering at.
Four hours later, I was stunned to be in a five star resort that had a massive swimming pool (complete with water slide and a waterfall) and we jumped into team meetings. This place was absolutely gorgeous! The air fresh, the skies a flawless blue, and the greens richer than I remember ever seeing before. It was heaven in winter. The first meeting/mixer was a bit rough, but dinner made up for the stress of figuring out logistics. The food at the place, oh my, the food was just too good. I can't even think of a word for how good this food was. Meal times, though normally a highlight of my day, became almost a sole event of the day. I almost lived for those meals. (I think I gained weight while there…. :)
The following day, we dove in head first to the kids program. I had the privilege of working with 8-9 beautiful, intelligent 7-11 year old foreign children (aka Not Asian). Over the course of the week I was able to build relationships with these kids who are living all over Asia with their families. It was a privilege and a joy to see how God used this week to encourage and build them up. Over all, though a bit exhausting, running around with 7-11 year olds, it was a blast! There were only two afternoons that we had to run a program so the remaining afternoons were spent by the pool catching a few rays, or taking a day trip into the neighboring city of Hua Hin. Over all though, God really used this week to speak to me about repentance, redemption, surrender, leadership, and courage. I will expound more on these points in later blogs- I don't want to overwhelm ya'll in this one… :)
We left the resort one week after arriving and drove back to Bangkok. After a terrifying set of taxi rides, we made it to the main market street and bought our bus tickets down to Koh Samui and did some, what I call, blitz shopping (aka running into a stall and bargaining and purchasing something in less than 5 minutes). After a very long overnight bus to Surathani, we waited for 2 hours for the bus to the ferry where we had a 1 and a half hour ferry to the island.
The waters of Koh Samui were simply stunning, varying between an emerald green and turquoise blue. It was incredibly hot as the sun is so intense that close to the equator, but it felt good. Especially on winter skin.
I never remember just how much of a Florida girl I am until I'm deprived of four main key items: Alligator jerky, Key Lime anything, sun, and beaches. When I don't have access to these, I am not a happy camper. Koh Samui gave me two of those fore necessities, so I was pretty happy…about as happy as a camel in a drought!
Sunday afternoon after arriving, and Monday were spent in the sun on the beach, eating green curry at a beachside restaurant, and freshly grilled corn on the cob, chicken, prawns, and spring rolls from a beach vendor. So good.
Tuesday we went on a sea safari, which was basically amazing. It consisted of a 1 hour boat ride to Anthong National Park (a group of islands in the Gulf of Thailand) to go snorkeling, hiking to a green lagoon, kayaking, relaxing on a beach, eating lunch, sight-seeing from the boat, and back to the main island for a short elephant ride. An absolute experience of a life time! (Also more on some of these adventures later)
Wednesday was a half beach day, half motorbike/cooking class day. I had the unique opportunity to take a cooking class at the Samui Institute of Thai Culinary Arts! It was definitely an awesome experience. I got to experiment with some native Thai ingredients and cooked three dishes: Green Curry with Chicken, Chicken Pad Thai, and Coconut Lime Chicken Soup. All of which were simply amazing. Especially the soup- I was kind of surprised by how savory it was!
Thursday we got up super early (aka 4:30am) to taxi back to the ferry to the bus, to the taxi, to the train station, to Bangkok. We got adventurous and took a train for the first time in Thailand- I've had bad experiences with every bus in Thailand so far, so Ray and I decided to see if taking a train would be a little less traumatizing- it was. It was wonderful, and we got to see so much more of the Thai countryside as we were traveling during the day and were not confined to a highway. It was definitely a good experience.
We flew out of Bangkok around 3 am, only to arrive exhausted back in Macau for another 8 hour layover. After getting kicked out of baggage claim (after mean lady number 3 woke us up), we went to the Hard Rock Hotel in hopes of finding breakfast. Apparently Macau does not believe in breakfast because we could only find one place that served breakfast. And boy was it worth every Macau Pataca it cost! There was an omelet station, rosemary and sausage roasted potatoes, smoked ham, three different international cheeses, blueberry and cheese brioche, cinnamon brioche, about 6 different types of bread, coffee, tea, grapefruit juice, cranberry juice, cereal, fruit, unlimited tea and coffee (and that was only the western side of the buffet…. (and they gave us clean cutlery half way through the meal!!!!!) Over all, it was a little much needed, well deserved pampering after being up almost all night traveling. We explored the historic sights of Macau for the rest of the day and enjoyed one last western meal before heading to the airport to return to Xiamen…..only to have our flight delayed.
No worries, a few hours later I found myself all snuggled up in my Xiamen bed. No movement, no bumps, no headlights in my eyes, no turbulence, no mean ladies to wake me up. =)
Sunday, February 9, 2014
Out of Sight, Out of Mind
"That's just the way it is, Joanna, you chose to move to China and to those of us still in the States, it's out of sight, out of mind."
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The first time I heard these words they stung so unbelievably badly I wasn't sure if I could handle the implications. Having lived overseas in China for two years now, I've actually gotten almost used to hearing the expression.
Feeling displaced in a foreign country and learning to cope and live in a new culture with new people and learn a new language, it would be so much more simple for me to take the easy road and return back to America as quickly as I came. However, I have not been called to live in America for this stage of my life, I have been called to China. I know I must stay, regardless the cost.
As I mull over recent conversations with friends and family in the States, I can't shake the expression:
Out of sight, out of mind.
I hear it over and over again in my head, "Why won't it go away??" I ask myself. The more I think about it, the more I wonder how many times this has been my approach to God.
Out of sight, out of mind.
When it's obvious that God is working, or I see Him saving the multitudes, or I see hundreds of campers responding to an invitation, it's easy to think, "Wow, God is so awesome!" When I am on a boat in the Gulf of Thailand speechless because of the beauty in front of me and think to myself, "And my God is so much more beautiful than all I see!" I can sit through a worship service and be awed by the power of my great God, and I can hear God speaking clearly through His word or in a powerful message at a conference.
There was a shift from Truth to fact. I allowed my reality to be dictated by the circumstances around me rather than asking Truth what He wanted me to learn about Him through the situations. When I looked away from Truth, I forgot Truth. When I forgot Truth, I despaired. In an instant, I went from praising to mourning. Truth got smaller and I got bigger- so did the circumstances.
Even as I write this, tears come to my eyes. I have felt the sting of the reality of this phrase and I have learned how to be seen. I have experienced the beauty of being seen and accepted, I have felt the warmth of pure love overflowing in the body of Christ and experienced sweet fellowship with those I am proud to call family. But I have had to work for it. It has not been easy, it's a journey- trial and error and more times than not I am afraid I am closer to the error side of things than the positive. But Jesus already did the work to be seen. He already came, He's already made Himself known. He's put out the greatest effort there has ever been to get our attention! And yet, still, in a moment we find Him,
…………………..
The first time I heard these words they stung so unbelievably badly I wasn't sure if I could handle the implications. Having lived overseas in China for two years now, I've actually gotten almost used to hearing the expression.
Feeling displaced in a foreign country and learning to cope and live in a new culture with new people and learn a new language, it would be so much more simple for me to take the easy road and return back to America as quickly as I came. However, I have not been called to live in America for this stage of my life, I have been called to China. I know I must stay, regardless the cost.
As I mull over recent conversations with friends and family in the States, I can't shake the expression:
Out of sight, out of mind.
I hear it over and over again in my head, "Why won't it go away??" I ask myself. The more I think about it, the more I wonder how many times this has been my approach to God.
Out of sight, out of mind.
When it's obvious that God is working, or I see Him saving the multitudes, or I see hundreds of campers responding to an invitation, it's easy to think, "Wow, God is so awesome!" When I am on a boat in the Gulf of Thailand speechless because of the beauty in front of me and think to myself, "And my God is so much more beautiful than all I see!" I can sit through a worship service and be awed by the power of my great God, and I can hear God speaking clearly through His word or in a powerful message at a conference.
But when all that is over, when all is said and done, do I sit in my room in the silence, when no on is around and think, "Wow, my God is so awesome, so beautiful, so powerful, so worthy of my praise"?More often than not, when I am alone in the afternoons after a full morning of classes, I find myself despairing. Despairing over a lack of communication with those I love, despairing over a word that should have gone unsaid, or deed that I refused to do out of stubborn selfishness that should have been done. Despairing over my pathetic lack of faith in many situations, and despairing of hope that I will ever not have to teach for a living or have a family of my own some day. Somewhere in those afternoons, my focus changed. My eyes shifted and my sight was not fixed on the prize. My eyes were no longer on God and His beauty, but rather the facts of life around me.
There was a shift from Truth to fact. I allowed my reality to be dictated by the circumstances around me rather than asking Truth what He wanted me to learn about Him through the situations. When I looked away from Truth, I forgot Truth. When I forgot Truth, I despaired. In an instant, I went from praising to mourning. Truth got smaller and I got bigger- so did the circumstances.
For even a moment, He became out of sight, out of mindHow tragic! How tragic it is that we can lose focus of our Redeemer, Savior, and Friend! How tragic that we could forget about our God, the Creator the Universe! How tragic that our one true Companion and Father could be invisible to us in just a moment! One moment of letting our guards down, one moment of thinking that we can stand on our own, one moment of wanting rest from the struggle… In one moment He becomes out of sight, out of mind.
Even as I write this, tears come to my eyes. I have felt the sting of the reality of this phrase and I have learned how to be seen. I have experienced the beauty of being seen and accepted, I have felt the warmth of pure love overflowing in the body of Christ and experienced sweet fellowship with those I am proud to call family. But I have had to work for it. It has not been easy, it's a journey- trial and error and more times than not I am afraid I am closer to the error side of things than the positive. But Jesus already did the work to be seen. He already came, He's already made Himself known. He's put out the greatest effort there has ever been to get our attention! And yet, still, in a moment we find Him,
Out of sight, out of mindOh that we would fix our eyes on Jesus, never wavering. With our shield of faith always protecting against the arrows of the evil one. That we would brandish our swords of truth with boldness to fight off our enemy and clear all the rubble and brush out of the way to have a clear view of the One who gave His life that we might glorify Him forever! So we might never be able to say His beauty, His face, His glory, His majesty, His love, His conviction, His Spirit could or would ever be
Out of sight, out of mind.
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